Somethings never change with time. Although, this 21st century and women are far more independent, but there are still somethings very important when it comes to relationship. Small gestures of genuine kindeness, politeness and security can help you win a woman's heart.

1. Turn off your phone

When with a woman its best to turn off your cell phone. Give her your undivided attention. Give your cell continues to ring or buzz after every few minutes then that is rude. It would also put her in an uncomfortable position because it would be difficult to sit there staring here and there while you are busy talking on the phone.

2. Dont use Abusive language

Mind your language! Never use abusive words in front of a lady. Using abusive words is bad but using them in front of a lady is equivalent to a sin. It shows your class. No matter how well educated or rich you are, but the instance you deliver a bad word your entire image will burn down to ashes.

When you use an abusive word, it puts a woman in an uncomfortable position. So avoid.

3. Hold the Door open to her

If you guys are meeting somewhere or going somewhere together then the best thing is to open the door for her. Nowadays women wont mind doing it themselves considering this practise as old fashioned, but when you this small gesture it surely warms their heart.

If you are meeting somewhere, then the best thing is to get there before her. It's rude to make her wait for you. Secondly, when she comes dont run to the door to hold it open for her, that would be weird. Stride in a poised manner.

4. Let her to sit down first

When you both reach the table then invite her to sit first. You dont have to pull the chair out for her if t he waiter is there, but if you do it then that would leave a good impression.

5. Stand up when she leaves

When its the time to say goodbye then be courteous enough to get up while she is leaving. Pull her chair for her and then wait for her to leave. But dont hover her she is preparing to leave.

These small gestures can make her feel real special. But all these gestures should be genuine beacause your forced kindness will show. So, best of luck. Be a gentleman and you will soon find your ladyluck :)

Four Ways To Love Yourself (Without A Wedding) :D

Thirty-year-old Chen Wei-yih of Taiwan has her wedding all planned out. She has a dress, a guest list, a reserved banquet hall, a planned honeymoon to Australia, not to mention a wedding planner. All that's missing, or rather purposefully missing, is a groom. Uninspired by ex-boyfriends and unhappy with the binding nature of tradition, Wei-yih hopes to promote self-love bymarrying herself.

While we're all about self-love and the realization that it's the foundation of any successful relationship, a solo wedding might be a bit expensive for us Average Janes, not to say don't do it if you have the money to foot the bill. By all means, ladies! There is something to be said for a public declaration of love. If the idea of marriage—to another person—just ain't your thing, like Wei-yih, here are four other ways to love yourself. 9 Ways To Rebuild Your Identity After A Breakup

1. Affirmations

Our friends at Yahoo! Shine list affirmations as the first step in their guide to loving yourself, and we couldn't agree more. All you need are a few positive phrases to repeat to yourself daily, i.e., "I'm fabulous," or "I look great" (because you are and you do!). Choose anything that is applicable to you and, after a while, you'll start to believe them.

2. Have a "me" day

We're all familiar with the stresses that life brings, so it's time for you to take a personal day! Plan a day to indulge in your favorite things, whether it's reading a new book, visiting a museum, getting pampered at a spa, or taking a yoga or zumba class. Allow yourself to be completely selfish, because you deserve it.

3. Make a list

As part of the "Love Yourself" week that took place in August, Frisky staffers complied lists of30 things they love about themselves, for example "I'm not afraid to dork out and admit I like the music that I like!" and "My long legs." We love this idea. What better way to focus on all your positives than having them listed right in front of you? Your list can consist of compliments, personality quirks, ambitions or goals you've accomplished—anything, large or small, that makes you proud to be you.

4. Rock out

Flying solo can be lonely, at times, but there are plenty of single lady jams to keep your spirits up when you're feeling low. Some of our favorites are (if you don't already have them downloaded) "Single Ladies (Put A Ring On it)" by Beyonce, "Since U Been Gone," by Kelly Clarkson, "I Don't Need A Man," by the Pussycat Dolls, or  "Don't Rain On My Parade" by either Barbara Streissand or theGlee cast.

How do you celebrate yourself Tell Me Please  :D